People tend to have big feelings about February, Valentine's day in particular. Whether they love love, and want to celebrate, or if they believe the holiday to be a big hoax designed by greeting card companies, and the chocolate industry. People are inclined to either love, or greatly dislike what this month is associated with.

But we say, let’s lean into this Venus energy. We tend to equate Venus with love (and money), but it also rules so much more. What makes us happy, what we value, and take pleasure in is all ruled by Venus. Let’s take stock of these things, and really appreciate them. What brings you joy? Take time for these things, make time for yourself.

For a self-love ritual, relax in a space where you feel comfortable, and light a candle . Sip a tea or drink you love slowly, be mindful of how it makes you feel. Ask yourself: What brings me joy? What do I value? Write down one thing you want to make more time for. Close by saying: “I honor what I love and allow myself to receive joy.”

February can be a little unsettling, whether it’s because of love holidays, or seasonal transitions. We’re still just settling into the new year, creating and managing expectations, and figuring out what we want to accomplish. So, here’s a little reminder to give yourself grace, practice self-love, and remember that there is no blueprint or recipe to follow. You create your own guidelines for happiness.

Also, don’t forget to check out our calendar of events for fun activities this month. Come into the shop, say ‘hi’ to Crow, seasonal depression is a real thing, and we could all use a little extra kitty cuddle.